Letters I have written ??

I wonder how often in life I have apologised? Probably more time than I would ever want to have to admit there was a need for an apology. There are of course been the occasions when the apology was needed and had to be given.

The letters might have gone something like this.

I have little doubt you probably remember me from the other day. I was the one who reacted very slowly to the green traffic light. When you blasted your horn, I realised I was holding up traffic, so please accept my apology.

However, I do want you to know why I seemed in a daze. You see, I had just at the doctor's office getting the results of the tests I had two weeks ago, and I was wondering how I would tell my wife and family that I have a serious illness. My eyes were still stinging from crying, so, quite simply I didn't even see the light change. Perhaps I should not have been driving, but I didn't want to miss my appointment and there was no one else to take me.

So please accept my apology for my very rude gesture and the remarks I mouthed in your direction.

And you over there, yes you.

I was the one in the express lane at the supermarket. I know you are only supposed to take 12 items or less and I had a trolley full. Please accept my apology. My mind was on my daughter who ran away from home, and she's just sixteen. I was so distraught then. You see, she somehow got in with the wrong crowd and started using drugs and drinking. I was remembering what a pretty little girl she had been most of her life. I know you were perturbed along with others in line.

Please, accept my apology.

I remember you from the department store last week. I was so mean to you when you were doing your job to the best of your ability. I acted so childishly. Please accept my apology. You see, I arrived home from work just yesterday and discovered that my wife had left me. But I should never have taken it out on you. Please, accept my apology.

Now before I get any messages concerned for me the above are fictitious incidents, and yet they express a very real truth.

The old saying about judging others before you have "walked a mile in their shoes," is a much-needed reminder.

Perhaps we all could try to be more cognizant of the fact that there are problems and situations in the lives of others of which we are totally unaware.

So, maybe before we get frustrated in similar circumstances, and find we are momentarily inconvenienced or suffering through a pointless tirade, we should think a moment and understand that things may be going on in other's lives which have caused them to be slower, absentminded or angry.

Patience, as they say, is a virtue.

Have a good day.